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One
of my favourite photos is a photo of a little boy
gazing quizzically into a large mirror, enthralled by
the image reflected there. He's asking himself the
question: "Who is this person?"
Ever stared in a mirror and asked yourself that
question? "Who am I?" How would you answer the
question?
Have you heard of Steve
Gurney? He's one of this country's elite multipart
athletes. Incredibly driven. Last year he was
interviewed in North & South Magazine. He talked about
the time when he nearly died when he contracted
leptospirosis while racing
in Borneo. He couldn't exercise. His hardened muscles
shrivelled. And for six months he was severely
depressed. He wanted to commit suicide. He said:
"My sport was everything
to me. I liked winning races, because it made me feel
good about myself. Then I started wondering if I had a
weakness, that I had to do these races to feel good
about myself. It's something I'm still trying to get
to the bottom of. It's ego, it's self-esteem,
self-confidence. It's identity. As a kid I didn't have
a lot of self-esteem or confidence... I was short and
small. To be totally honest, I think that's why I go
to the lengths I do in sport, at the expense sometimes
of my friends and relationships."
Steve Gurney is not
alone. Many people today would say: "Who am I? I am
what I make myself to be, independent of anyone else."
Is that true? Are we just the sum total of our
achievements?
I had a friend at
primary school called David Melrose. I haven't seen
him for years. But back in the 1970s, his parents
were, I guess, hippies. Unfortunately for David, that
meant he was sent to school wearing funny clothes,
sporting an appalling haircut, and smelling like he'd
eaten garlic for breakfast. So David acquired the
unfortunate nickname: Garlic Face. I can still
remember us taunting him. Kids can be so cruel. I can
just imagine David walking slowly home, with tears in
his eyes, and the thought rattling around in his head:
"Who am I? I'm Garlic Face. I'm hated. I'm useless."
Is that true? Are we just what other people make us to
be? Some people would say so. They'd say that young
criminal offenders that end up in court are just the
product of their environment.
But maybe there's a
better answer to the question, "Who am I?" Listen to
this: Genesis 1:26-28.
Out of all the creatures
that he made, God says that humans are different: he
made us in his image. Just like a son resembles his
father, just like Karl's paintings express his
personality, just like a mirror reflects a person's
likeness, we were made to be like God. How do we do
that? Theologians have spent lots of time trying to
discover the one characteristic that makes us like
God. Is it some quality we possess: our ability to
reason or create or distinguish between right and
wrong? Is it some function we perform, as caretakers
of creation? Look closely. "Let us make humans in our
image...male and female he created them." Just as God
is "us" - Father, Son and Spirit living together in
perfect relationship - we find our true identity
through our relationships with one another - and our
relationship with God. So how does that answer the
"Who am I?" question?
When you get up tomorrow
morning and look in the mirror say to yourself, "I am
God's." Once upon a time some people asked Jesus
whether they should keep paying their taxes. Jesus
looked at a coin and asked them: "Whose image appears
on this?" Caesar's. "Give to Caesar what is Caesar's
and give to God what is God's." In other words, Jesus
was saying, "Give your money to Caesar because it
bears his image. It belongs to him. But give yourself
to God because you bear his image. You belong to him."
Dietrich Bonhoeffer, the great German theologian
realised that. He said, "Who am I? You know, O God.
Whoever I am, I am yours." We find our true identity
when we turn to God.
Secondly, when you look
in the mirror tomorrow morning, say to yourself, "I am
valuable." Think about it, when the Creator of the
Universe wanted to create something like himself,
someone who could freely love him, he made you. We are
the pinnacle of his creation. That has implications
for the way we treat one another. Every single person,
whether they be a new immigrant, or an unborn child,
or a criminal terrorist - however much the image of
God in them may be distorted - they deserve our
protection and our love. They are made in God's image.
But there's one other
implication for how we view ourselves. I have a couple
of old chairs that I rescued some time ago. They're
scratched and stained. But I'm sanding them,
varnishing them, slowly but surely restoring them to
their original condition. We're all a bit like those
chairs. None of us reflects God's image like we
should. We're fallen. We doubt God, we mistreat each
other. The image has got a bit fuzzy. But there's one
person who perfectly reflects God's image (Heb 1:3).
He lived the perfect life on our behalf. And Jesus
says that if we will trust him, and choose to pattern
ourselves after him, God himself will restore us to
our original condition. As the Apostle Paul says, "All
of us can be mirrors that brightly reflect the glory
of the Lord...As the Spirit of the Lord works within
us, we become more and more like him" (2 Cor 3:18). So
when we wake up tomorrow morning, we can look in the
mirror and say, "I am being restored." One day I will
be just like Jesus, perfect (1 John 3:2). Until then,
as the Body of Christ, it's our responsibility through
our relationships with each other, to give the world a
glimpse, a reflection, of what God is really like. Are
we doing that?
As a child the Duke of
Windsor was educated by his father King George V. His
dad would often walk with him through Windsor Castle,
showing him all the treasures of the palace. And he
would say to him, day after day, "Never forget who you
are." God says to us, "Never forget whose you are."
The truth about our identity, the answer to the
question "Who am I?" is this: We are God's. We are
valuable to him. And he is restoring us, each one of
us, and all of us together as a church community, as
we trust in him, the One who made us in his image.
Study Questions
1. In the book, Les
Miserables, Jean Valjean asks the question: "Who am
I?" How would you answer that question?
2. What do you think are
the main causes of youth suicide in New Zealand today?
Would one of them relate to the self-image of young
people?
3. What does it mean to
be made in the image of God (see Genesis 5:3)?
4. Are human beings more
like marbles in a bag or pieces of a jigsaw puzzle?
Why?
5. What are the
implications of us being made "male and female"?
6. When the book of
Genesis was first written, kings in the ancient near
East often installed in cities where they could not
personally be present images of themselves to
represent their power and majesty. In the same way, do
you think God has placed us on the earth to represent
him, to show all of creation what God is really like?
7. How do we reflect
God's character to people around us? How do we fail to
do that? In what ways can we as individuals and a
church community reflect God's image more brightly?
8. Do you think
non-Christians still bear the image of God, or did we
all lose it when Adam fell (Genesis 3)?
9. If the image of God in all of us has
been somehow distorted by sin, how can it be restored
(Rom 8:28-29; 2 Cor 3:18; Col 3:10; 1 John 3:12; 1 Cor
15:49)?
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