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I guess
you all heard about the case of baby Kahu, the story about a
little baby stolen from her mother's arms? Let me tell you a
story about another baby that was stolen, or nearly stolen,
from his mother's arms. Like the baby Kahu case, this story
many years ago captured the attention of an entire country.
Imagine
a court room - the High Court - packed with journalists,
cameras, members of the public, all straining on tip toe to
get a view of the complainant, all waiting on the edge of
their seats for the judge, the king, to enter the court. "All
stand," cries the court clerk. Everyone scrambles to their
feet as the king enters and takes his seat high on the bench.
He motions for the trial to begin and, trembling, an
attractive young woman all on her own, without a lawyer,
stands up to present her case.
"My, my
Lord," she stammers. "My Lord, the King, this woman here - the
woman with the baby - she and I have been flatting together in
an apartment. I had a baby while we were living together. At
first, when I heard that I was pregnant, I was terrified. I'm
a prostitute, a sex worker. I'm not married. I don't earn much
money. How was I going to look after a baby? But when he was
born, he was so vulnerable, so beautiful, so perfect. He was
my son. Compassion for him just flooded my heart. Well, just
three days later my flatmate here also gave birth to a baby.
There was no midwife, no specialists involved. We have no
family or friends that would want to visit us. So it was just
the two of us in the flat. Only the two of us got to see both
babies."
"During
the night my flatmate's baby died. She must have rolled on top
of him. But she got up, crept in the darkness to the side of
my bed and, while I was asleep, gently took my son from beside
me. She laid the lifeless body of her dead baby in my arms,
and took my son to sleep beside her. In the morning I got up
to nurse my baby, but when I lifted and cradled him in my arms
I realised that something was wrong. He was cold. And he was
limp, lifeless. I listened for breathing, for a little heart
beat ... nothing. He was dead. Dead. But when I looked at him
closely in the early morning light, I could tell he wasn't my
baby at all. His little ears, and nose and fingers - they
weren't the same. It was her son, not mine. She had stolen my
baby!"
At that
point the other woman, who had been gently caressing the baby
in her arms, interrupted the speech. She jumped to her feet
and shrieked, "That's a lie! This is my baby. It was your son,
your son, that died. You know it!" "No!" screamed the first
one, and she lunged for the child, "Give me my back my baby,
my baby." The court was in an uproar. Journalists were
scribbling furiously. People were arguing. "Order! Order in
the court!" The king motioned for silence and the noise
quickly ebbed away. The king stared down at the two young
women, these two young mums. Pain and desperation stained both
their faces. Which one was the mother? Which one was doing a
John Daly, a Helen-Clark-the-artist impersonation? How was he,
this king, this still young and inexperienced judge, to decide
such a difficult case?
Then he
remembered the dream he had just a while ago. In the dream God
had appeared to him and said, "What do you want? Ask me for
anything and I will give it to you." And he had answered God,
"You made me king over these people of yours. I've got no idea
how to care for them. So give me wisdom - give me a wise and
discerning mind - that I might be able to govern them well and
know the difference between right and wrong." Well, if only it
hadn't been a dream! Iif ever he needed wisdom it was now.
Addressing the two young women in front of him the king summed
up the evidence. "Both of you claim the living child is yours,
right? And both of you claim that the dead child belongs to
the other, right? And there was no one else in the house, no
one else at the birth of your babies? So there are no
independent witnesses to identify the real mother?" There was
no evidence. It was one person's word against another's. The
king paused. The court held its breath, waiting for his
decision. This was more riveting than watching The Practice on
TV. This was more exciting than watching the events unfold
around our bid to host the Rugby World Cup. How was the king
going to decide this impossible case? DNA testing hadn't been
invented yet. Both mums seemed equally affectionate towards
the child. If ever the king needed wisdom it was now. Watching
these two young mums, the pages of his mind flicked back to
his own mum and how she had loved him when he was a boy:
making his lunches for school every day, watching him play
footy every weekend, reading him bedtime stories every night,
cleaning up when he was sick, taking him to the doctor ...
she'd do anything for him, she gave her life for him. And then
it hit him, like Jonah Lomu ten metres out from the line. Of
course!
So he
gave the order, "Bring me a sword." A sword? What for? But a
court guard stepped forward and drew his sword form its sheath
with a metallic ring. The king commanded him, "Cut the living
boy in two and give half to each of these women." Divide the
child between these two mothers? This isn't a section of land
or a piece of pie. It's a living, breathing, human baby boy.
Shared custody maybe, shared access rights maybe, but a
severed corpse? Officers wrenched the screaming baby from the
women and one of them raised his sword over the child, the
long, sharp blade gleamed in the light. But before he could
strike, a long, sharp scream stopped him. "No!" wailed one of
the mothers, frantically, hysterically. Her heart was softened
with tender compassion for her baby, his life endangered.
"Please, my Lord! Don't kill him. Give him to her. But please
just let him live." But her rival, the other woman, her heart
hardened by jealousy and with no real compassion for the
child, hissed, "No! Neither of us will get him. Cut him in
half!"
The
officer raised his sword again, and took one last look across
at the king. The two mothers looked up at the king. Everyone
was looking towards the king. And then the king gave his
verdict: "Don't kill him. Give the baby to the woman who wants
him to live. Because only a mother, only the real mother,
would love her baby too much to let it die. Her love for the
boy, her willingness to sacrifice everything for him, reveals
that she is his mother."
The
court was in an uproar. Cameras flashed. Journalists started
shouting. The king's decision was splashed all over the six
o'clock news that night. What wisdom! Where did he get it? If
the king had been interviewed on Holmes that night, he would
have said that God had answered his request - he'd given him
the wisdom he needed to do his job and look after those in his
care. Because he had realised that the real mum, just like any
good parent, would do anything, give anything, to make sure
her baby lived - just like God gave everything - his life - so
that we, his children, should live forever with him.
A Mothers' Day Prayer
Thank you Lord
for mothers.
Thank you for the love that we've received from our mothers -
extravagant, selfless, sacrificial love.
Forgive us for sometimes taking such wonderful love for
granted.
And thank you for giving us through our mothers a window on
your love for each one of us.
It amazes us, humbles us, God to think that you love us like
that -
that you love us so much that you would do anything, give
everything (even your own life),
to save us and give us life with you.
Thank you that you give wisdom to those who ask for it
so that they can care for those in their charge.
We pray for our mothers, and for other mothers that we know.
Give them the wisdom and strength they need to care for those
in their families.
And we pray for ourselves and the responsibilities that we
have to care for those around us.
Give us the wisdom that we need to care well for those
in our families, our businesses, our classes, our church
family -
for all those who you ask us to love.
We ask this so that others may see your love for them in us.
Amen.
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